FLYINGMANE
10 posts Aug 27, 2008
1:15 PM
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Ho my! I do not know what I was thinking but I wanted to try to ride my old girl Kyna again. We rode in the round pen, after a few minutes we got out and went to her paddock ( about 1 acre). She was just an awsome LADY! I am ashame to say that I finnaly realise something today with her. She would not go nowhere without me sitting properly. I soon has I was too forward, or felt a little tence she would not go nowhere. I could have beat the crap out of her (no I did not) she would not move. BUT I soon has I had a good seat she was going. Isn't amazing! I had giving up on her because she did not want to walk more than a couple steps. BOY do I feel stupid! she just wanted me to relax and have a good seat!! It took me that long to realise that the poor creature wanted out of me. I was too busy feeling sorry for myself and been scared. Even more stupid realising that I have an awsome horse on my land that I was not using... go figure! Now, we did not go very far, she stop often, but by that time, I had no feet in the stirups, my hands were loose by my side and I let her walk where ever she wanted as long as she was moving. Because of that, I was able to concentrate on my seat (I realise how much to lite and forward I have been riding). I EVEN CLOSED MY EYES AND ENJOYED HER MOVING... We did not go on more than 20 min, because she had not riden like I said for at least 2 yrs. Once I got off, I took her saddle, and she followed me to the gate. She pushed gently with her nose in my back. Yes ladies and gents I was crying of joy! did we finnaly connected! well more to follow@ PS! I just wish my mustang would be the same!
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RedsMom
935 posts Aug 27, 2008
1:23 PM
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Chantal, I am so glad that you and Kyna had a good ride together! That's wonderful! And after she hadn't even been ridden in two years! WOW!!! :o) Good for you, and keep riding her! It's probably good for the old girl! ;oD ---------- ~RedsMom Wear your brain bucket!!! :oD
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FLYINGMANE
11 posts Aug 27, 2008
1:33 PM
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Thank you, Maybe it was just a fluck today but sure had my eyes open! I guess things happen when you are ready to receive them.
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AlbuquerqueCathy
44 posts Aug 27, 2008
1:39 PM
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wow, way to go! Isn't it powerful what getting out from under fear can do for you. I just hate how fear keeps me bound up and planning for the worst all the while the good stuff passes by. I really like your plan of just keeping her moving. You're an inspiration.
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FLYINGMANE
12 posts Aug 27, 2008
2:45 PM
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Hi Cathy, Just to keep her moving is not a plan of mine. It is actually from Parelli. I guess she might not feel so push around so much, after all she decides where to go. Actually I do not care for now if she wants to stay close to the gate, like I said as long as she is moving, if she is too close from the fence, I will pick up the renne and "suggest" to go to the left for ex. then as soon as she is on the move I let her go with out other commands. I am lucky to have her, while she figures where to go, I am trying to relax with her movements, and I am trying very hard to have that heavy seat! I am so quick to be crunsh on her shoulder. I guess it is a natural reaction for someone who is scared, we want to be in a ball but so we end up too forward, and that mean we are too light on the saddle. I felt today that I was way back on her but my friend said that I looked straight. Weird!!
Last Edited on 27-Aug-2008 2:48 PM
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Meezer
174 posts Aug 27, 2008
4:31 PM
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Congratulations! That's so wonderful. I hope this is a start of all kinds of good things for you and Kyra!
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FLYINGMANE
15 posts Aug 27, 2008
6:44 PM
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Thanks Meezer, I am hoping that she will teach me a lot more! With time I am hoping also that I will be able to transfer all that good stuff to my mustang. Cross my toes!hihi!!
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Determined
316 posts Aug 28, 2008
5:32 AM
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This is a good lesson for all of us. It speaks to what DixieMom always says - we need to listen to our horses and hear what they are telling us. You are proof of that! Good for you for listening. So, it took you a few years to do it - so what! The important thing now is that your "ears" are opened and you are watching and listening. I think great things are ahead for you and Kyna - way to go!!!!
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FLYINGMANE
17 posts Aug 28, 2008
9:11 AM
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Thank you Determined. I know I will have the ups and downs again. But I think I have a new tool to my knowledge. She gave me so much yesterday! Now, if I can transfer this to my mustang! time that is what I need! the more I get good experience, the more I will be able to go on. thank you again.
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dog-shrink
352 posts Aug 29, 2008
4:02 AM
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Bravo! Tu n'est pas le seule qui penche en avant. Tout la ballade je me dis "pivoter les hanches, reculer les épaules, avancer les jambes" Ca marche! ---------- Bitless - not witless!
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plum1
125 posts Aug 29, 2008
4:08 AM
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sounds great...its true that good expereinces are the best confidence givers!
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FLYINGMANE
20 posts Aug 30, 2008
9:25 AM
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Godshrink, Ton francais es excellent! tu es en France je crois?
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