Today we loped in the small arena for the first time. It was just around half of it, but I did not grab mane and I did not even use a riding crop. It was fun. No one was in the arena and no one saw us. Then I was so excited, I am not sure if I stopped giving the right cue or Indy suddenly realized I was willing to ask him to work. We did not get another stretch of lope. I am so pleased with the advice I have seen here, especially the deeper seat discussion. For me the focus was on riding correctly so Indy would lope, I forgot to be afraid. I am going to get with his trainer to see if I am cueing him right and I have made an appointment with the riding instructor to help me ask consistantly with legs and hands. It takes more than one person to help me. Dixiemom, if you are ever in the Phoenix area I would love to show you our progress.